How to Build Trust and Get What You Want!

The word for the week is "Trust.”

Trust is critical to your success. Having both people and communication skills can impact how quickly you are able to establish trust. Ineffective communications can result in misunderstandings that can lead to missed opportunities, actions that don’t match with expectations and other issues. Those with great people and communication skills help build their credibility as a leader, friend, spouse and parent. When you are communicating effectively for outcomes, you get what you want. Know your own triggers that impact your communications effectiveness and address them. Work on your listening skills.

Additional tips to build trust:

· Practice What You Preach to Others

· Honor Your Promises

· Keep Confidences

· Be Honest

· Be Transparent

I am building trust through effective communications.

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